When sex becomes too predictable and routine, some couples opt for a wilder experience – make him cuckold. This male fantasy involves your partner watching you have sex with someone else. It can be a thrilling situation that packs a punch of passionate emotions in the bedroom.
Being watched by your significant other while another man is pleasuring you can lead to an overflow of feelings: from embarrassment to power and even appreciation. The thought of it alone might seem overwhelming, but when done mindfully and communicate consentually, cuckolding can be a fantastic way to spice up the relationship.
Cuckolding might seem intimidating or uncomfortable; however, the takeaway themes of cuckolding are actually quite simple – communication, trust and consent. With these at the forefront of any kind of sexual exchange, experimenting with cuckolding can become play-like fun between couples without sacrificing self-respect or security in a relationship.
That being said, there are several tips to consider before embarking on this male fantasy: talk as openly as possible with your partner to discuss any hesitations and anxieties either one may face. Safety should also be paramount: if planning to partake outside the home, such as incorporating a third party into the mix in a consensual manner, choose trustworthy partners and do background checks beforehand when able for added precautionary measures.
Also keep in mind that “made” does not mean forced – there is no room for coercion or manipulation in any sexual act – especially when this involves involving another party. In order for both persons’ preferences to be equally respected; open dialogue about fantasies before indulging will grant respect for all parties involved.
From establishing boundaries regarding who or what is permissible during such activities as well as creating check-ins during/post intercourse (so either partner can express their feelings afterwards) knowing exactly how each person feels drives consensual understanding between both lovers. After all —it’s a shared activity that allowed mutual pleasure while still satisfying an individual need—and nothing should ever sacrifice either party feeling safe & comfortable in exploring their own sexuality further together!